FELISIA GAMESTHIS IS LOVE

A psychology-backed conversation method

THIS IS LOVE

Six months of the same old dates — in one evening

Learn someone’s default settings before you have to ask, “Would you still love me if I was a worm?”

  • 2+players
  • 300+questions
  • 30–60minutes
  • Freeno payments or subscriptions

The game’s principleNo right or wrong answers. Only real-life facts

Level 1closeness level: 1 of 3

Categories

Choose your level

A steady flow toward closeness: three levels of depth with no interrogation vibes

Rules of the game

4 principles of a comfortable conversation

Grounded in psychology research so that everyone feels safe, respected and genuinely listened to

  1. You both answer

    Whoever draws the card goes first, and the other person starts the next one. Taking turns keeps the conversation moving

    Reciprocity

  2. Ask a follow-up

    After each answer, ask at least one follow-up, like “What happened next?” “Why did you choose that?” or “How did that feel?”

    Real attention

  3. Right to pass

    You can skip any card without explaining why. Trust grows from respecting each other’s boundaries

    Safety

  4. No rush

    It’s best to go through the categories in order — but not necessarily in one evening. Enjoy the pace of the conversation

    Your own pace

Ready for an honest conversation?

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Free, no sign-up: the first five questions are open right away, the rest unlock when you sign up

Methodology

The anatomy of a conversation

Three steps to closeness

  1. Phase 01Breaking the ice

    Easing social anxiety

    Everyday scenes, habits and funny stories — from loading the dishwasher to an unexpected knock at the door. They build a shared space of laughter and ease

    VulnerabilityLight

  2. Phase 02Reality check

    A stress test for views and habits

    Money, family, work and friendship through real situations. You see how someone argues, spends and handles disagreement

    VulnerabilityThoughtful

  3. Phase 03Syncing values

    Deep authenticity

    The future, kids, home and trust — from a holiday table fifteen years from now to how you support each other. The answers show whether you come from the same world

    VulnerabilityDeep

Signal detector

What to look for

Key behavioral signs of maturity during the game

  • Values, not status

    Do they talk about what matters to them — or try to impress you?

  • Everyday life and roles

    How they feel about routine, compromise and a partner’s time alone

  • Curiosity in return

    Do they ask follow-up questions, or steer the talk back to their own stories?

  • Real joy at your wins

    Can they celebrate your wins without hidden envy or brushing them off?

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